Men Are Avoiding Jennifer Lopez After Divorce With Ben Affleck

According to sources, Jennifer Lopez, who recently got divorced from Ben Affleck, is having trouble finding love and is being shunned by eligible guys in Hollywood.

According to a source, men are not keen to seek a relationship with the singer-actress, even if she is once again accessible and in the spotlight.

Why Men Are Turning Away

A source quoted by InTouch Weekly states that Lopez’s dating requirements have become a deterrent. “She’s made it clear that if you want to date her, you’d better be ready to treat her like a queen and deal with a suitcase full of drama,” the insider explains.

This high-maintenance attitude, combined with her recent divorce, seems to have led to a decline in interest from potential suitors.

Interestingly, while Lopez claims she is taking a break from dating, it seems the situation is the opposite.

According to the same source, “Jennifer may say she needs time away from men, but that’s clearly a self-defense mechanism because the reality is that every man who sees her coming now runs in the other direction.” The source adds, “She’s aware of what’s happening, but she’s trying to control the narrative to make it look like she’s the victim — which is getting harder for anybody to swallow!”

A Challenging Relationship History

Lopez’s romantic history, including multiple divorces and engagements, has left a significant mark. With four divorces under her belt, including her latest split from Affleck, many believe her relationships have been turbulent.

One source shared with Radar Online that Lopez’s high expectations have contributed to the distance from men. The same insider remarked that not only is Affleck happy to be out of her life, but so are all of her exes, who reportedly regret their time together.

Despite these challenges, Lopez has made it clear that she’s not actively seeking a partner. In a candid conversation with comedian Nikki Glaser for Interview magazine, she revealed, “Yes, I’m not looking for anybody, because everything that I’ve done over the past 25, 30 years, being in these different challenging situations, what can I f****** do when it’s just me flying on my own…What if I’m just free?”

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