Why Does Ed Fear The Test?
90 Days Ed has admitted that he doesn’t feel comfortable having an STD test in the Phillippines. However, is it not just as dangerous for Rose to have the test there as it is for him to have it? If Ed doesn’t trust the medical professionals in the Phillippines, why would he want the woman he claims to love in danger? Is the fact that he refused to take this test just fear or is Ed hiding something from Rose about his sexual past?
Ed Claims To Want Information On Rose’s Past
90 Days Ed claims that he wants information on Rose’s past, but she opened up and started telling him what he wanted to know. Was it too little too late on Rose’s part? Rose has sidestepped around her past for the whole time she and Ed have been talking. Rose is finally now answering questions but she’s is apparently not going into enough detail to suit Ed. But Ed has not been honest with Rose either.
Ed and Rose’s relationship seems to be on the rocks after his request because she feels Ed has betrayed her. However, Ed is also not telling her that although he might want to be a father to her son, he absolutely wants no part of any more kids although Rose wants two more. Ed also lied about simple things like his height. What right does he have to expect complete honesty from Rose if he refuses to be honest himself?
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Square Pegs And Round Holes
90 Days Rose has a lot to be upset over. Ed doesn’t seem to want to be with this woman. Ed has lied about his appearance from the start and the lying is only getting worse. Ed says he doesn’t trust Rose but she is well within her rights to say no to a test if Ed isn’t willing to have it done himself. Just because Ed says he hasn’t been with another one since his divorce over 30 years ago doesn’t mean he couldn’t have an STD. Ed needs to stop playing around and be honest with Rose about his wants an move on.
Ed has no right to ask Rose to do something he is not willing to do himself. How will their relationship end up if Ed doesn’t back down? Perhaps, if Ed wants the STD test done on Rose, he needs to give up his phobias and have a test along with Rose to prove he is serious about a relationship with her.
I think Big Ed looks down at the medical profession in the Philippines, and he feels he is doing Rose a big favor by taking her to the U.S. He looks at that country with such disgust and revulsion, but it’s ok for Rose to go get tested there because she is sub-human in his eyes.