TLC 90 Day Fiancé-Before The 90 Days Spoilers: Geoffrey Paschel Talks Remaining Positive In Challenging Times

TLC “90 Day Fiancé-Before The 90 Days” star Geoffrey Paschel has learned some lessons in his life about making lemonade out of life’s lemons, so to speak, and decided to reach out to his fans and followers to share some positivity in a recent Instagram post and some of the things that he has learned.

TLC 90 Day Fiance’ Spoilers – Geoffrey Has Gained A Deeper Understanding About Things In Life

Geoffrey says that he has gained a deeper understanding of things in life, especially bad or negative things and situations that he has lived through himself. He says he has realized that his life has always brought lessons for him to learn regardless of whether he thought he needed them or not.

He says that through the trials and tribulations of life he has learned to look for the positive in the midst of the negatives, and also has been brought closer to the people he needs in his life, and identified those who only bring problems, referring to unfriending those people as “squeezing out hidden serpents”.

Even though it has not been easy for him to do so, he has realized that the process was enlightening, and ultimately, necessary. Unfortunately, not all those in one’s life who calls him or herself a friend is really a true friend, and no one enjoys being used! Geoffrey also writes that even in the most negative situations that he encounters and had encountered recently, there have always been positive outcomes. He also has gained a new appreciation of things that he has been forced to do, recognizing that had he not been forced he likely would have not done them.

TLC 90 Day Fiance’ Spoilers – Geoffrey Has Learned To Welcome Challenges In His Life

Geoffrey also shares in his post that he has learned to welcome challenges in his life – although not always during the time that he is fighting through them. He writes that his own existence has a special and unique way of pushing him onward to fight through whatever problems present themselves along the way, or solving them if he is able to. After all, there are always things along the way in the path of life that one cannot do anything about, and one just has to accept them or find a way around them.

It would be great if there were warnings about things ahead, but he acknowledges that there are not and hindsight is always 20/20. He thinks sometimes people need challenging problems to give them a little push in a different direction. Geoffrey writes that he has realized this is true in his own life. He also writes about there have been many times in his own life when things have happened that he didn’t understand and that he cannot explain.

Particularly with traumatic things, he says he always wonders why they happened – as we all do. He has, however, gradually been able to accept them all as part of life and says he is a better person because of them – except for one horrendous experience, which he does not go into detail about.

TLC 90 Day Fiance’ Spoilers – Geoffrey Has Advice For His Fans

Geoffrey advises fans and followers to not let themselves become too anxious in the moment and to try to see a bigger meaning behind things – to slow down, breathe, think. He says most of us think they know a reason for something unpleasant happening as the events occur but that sometimes it’s better to let the storm pass and then try to define it, although when one is in the storm it is healthy to try to find good in it. He also advises remembering that all storms pass and the sunshine will return.

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