90 Day Fiancé: Before The 90 Days: Darcy Silva Still Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places

90 Day Fiance’s Darcy Silva has been looking for love for some time but so far her matches have not worked out. We watched Darcy’s previous romance with Jesse Meester fall apart on camera and now it seems the same has happened with Tom Brooks.

Still Hesitant After Four Years

Before the 90 Days stars, Tom and Darcy are still on again off again on this season’s show. Tom doesn’t seem any more interested in a permanent relationship than he did before. Tom doesn’t want a relationship with one person, he would rather play the field. However, Tom certainly wants to keep Darcy on a leash as a backup when he needs a date. Recently Tom asked to meet up with Darcy while he was on a business trip. Darcy found herself questioning whether to meet with Tom or not.

Make A Commitment Or Breakup

90 Days Tom is like a rollercoaster, the man cannot make up his mind what he wants. Tom expects Darcy to behave in a certain manner and Darcy and be overbearing, to say the least. Tom works and cannot interrupt meetings to answer the endless text messages and call that Darcy normally sends him. Darcy gets upset with Tom because he’s not available when she randomly calls even though she knows he is in a work situation. But work isn’t the only thing that keeps Tom from responding to Darcy’s calls.

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Tom has admitted at times that he believes Darcy is impatient and that’s why he makes her wait for a response from him. Tom wants a girlfriend when it is convenient to have one but doesn’t apparently want the rest of the related responsibilities. Tom is unwilling to commit yet he’s also unwilling to let go. It is time for Tom to make a decision and stick with instead of jerking Darcy around by keeping her on a leash instead of letting her find love with someone who appreciates her.

90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days – Is Darcy Silva Too Needy?

90 Days Darcy does more crying on this show than she does anything else. Having your private life exposed on national television has to be stressful, but seriously, if it is that bad, why continue on the show? Darcy seems to want to cling to whomever she is seeing and not give them any breathing room to speak of at all.

Darcy, just find a Nigerian man. Bet he would worship the ground you walk on #90DayFiance pic.twitter.com/BNKDTcAGRe

— lisa (@lisa52862291) March 9, 2020

Perhaps Darcy would be better off to concentrate on her family and her business and let love come when it may instead of trying to force a relationship that isn’t working. Darcy should reevaluate her situation and start with a fresh perspective instead of falling into the same traps in her relationship again.

90 Days Darcy is an intelligent woman and she does not need a man to define her. However, Darcy needs to realize her self worth before she tries to make a go of another relationship. No want particularly wants to be alone, but is alone not better than constant upheaval? Hang in there Darcy, love will come along when its time, you just can’t force it with an unwilling party.